Thursday, January 22, 2009

20 Perilaku yang Merusak Kepercayaan

20 Perilaku yang Merusak Kepercayaan



"Tiada kata 'saya' dalam sebuah tim," begitulah ungkapan yang sering kita dengar di tempat kerja. Namun, faktanya, selalu ada anggota tim yang cenderung ingin menonjolkan diri, merasa berperan lebih atau paling besar di antara yang lainnya. Jika sudah begini, semangat tim pun menjadi rusak. Hubungan antaranggota diwarnai dengan ketidakpercayaan. Akibatnya, dikerja dan produktivitas pun terganggu. Kita semua bisa menghindari hal itu terjadi, dengan menjauhkan diri dari sikap-sikap dan perilaku-perilaku yang bisa merusak kepercayaan orang lain terhadap diri kita. Apa saja itu?



1. Gagal menepati janji-janji, persetujuan dan komitmen



2. Mengutamakan kepentingan diri sendiri



3. Semua hal ingin dilakukan sendiri, dan menolak pendelegasian



4. Tidak konsisten antara perkataan dan perbuatan



5. Pelit berbagi informasi penting



6. Menyembunyikan kebenaran



7. Suka menyalahkan orang lain, dan berusaha menutupi kesalahan sendiri



8. Lebih senang menghakimi dan mengkritik ketimbang memberikan umpan balik yang konstruktif



9. Tak mampu menjaga rahasia dan justru senang menggosipkan orang lain



10. Membatasi kesempatan orang lain untuk ikut berkontribusi atau terlibat dalam pengambilan keputusan



11. Meremehkan bakat, pengetahuan dan keterampilan orang lain



12. Ogah mendukung pengembangan profesional orang lain



13. Menolak dinilai oleh kolega



14. Menolak berkompromi dengan argumentasi orang lain; mau menang sendiri



15. Tertutup



16. Lebih menyenangi sarkasme ketimbang humor



17. Tidak mengakui kekurangan dan tak mau minta bantuan orang lain



18. Menganggap saran dan kritik orang lain sebagai serangan terhadap pribadi



19. Tak banyak berkontribusi dalam berbagai meeting tim, dan malah cenderung mengganggu



20. Menggalang kelompok kecil untuk "melawan" keputusan tim.



Sumber : PortalHR



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